- Identity: Asking “Who Am I?” A. SelfConcept: What Am I Like?
- Differentiation of selfconcept reflects a complex definition of the self. For example, we talked about adolescents becoming more idealistic – they may start defining themselves by their belief systems, as well.
Confusion: behs don’t always match up with selfimage
older teens more comfortable w/ behs changing across situations
incorporating others’ view of the self even more beliefs ideas about who you are
SelfEsteem: How Do I Like Myself?
1. Gender Differences in SelfEsteem
a) Especially in early adolescence, girls have lower selfesteem.
social pressure on physical appearance, social relationships may feel pressured to hide academic ability
Self esteemis the emotional reaction to who you are. While the selfesteem of boys is generally higher, they have worries of their own. macho expectations confident, tough, fearless, no matter what athletic competence
Socioeconomic Status and Race Differences in SelfEsteem
- Higher SES leads to more selfesteem – especially in late adolescence, trends very important; can feel left out if you can’t afford them
- Current research indicates that African American adolescents, who have strong racial identity and sense of community, teens tend to have a stronger sense of racial identity, community, which leads to higher levels of selfesteem
- It appears that Hispanic, Asian, and Native Americans have lower selfesteem than African or Caucasian Americans. in order AA, White, Hispanic, Asian, Native American
- Identity Formation: Change or Crisis?
- According to Erik Erikson, adolescents are in the identity versus identity confusion stage. discover identity, individuality
- never said your done, you may slightly revise your sense of self as you move on in life, BUT the BULK is in adolescence
- Societal Pressures and Reliance on Friends and Peers: lots of pressure to figure out what they want to do with life, esp., in late adolescence may rely more on friends, peers than parents as to what we should do
- Psychological Moratorium taking time off from upcoming responsibilities of adulthood to explore roles, possibilities is it a good idea to have a year break b/w high school and college?
- James Marcia’s Approach to Identity Development
- He suggests four categories within which either crisis or commitment exists. The four statuses are:
- Identity achievement: considered alternatives, committed to choices tend to be the happiest; may go back into exploration in college
- Identity foreclosure prematurely committed to identity without really exploring usually what their parents want tend to have an above average/ high need for social approval
- Identity diffusion no exploration, no commitment: perfectly normal for young ppl ( 13 yrs); common in early teens in late teens, can lead to anxiety
- He suggests four categories within which either crisis or commitment exists. The four statuses are:
- Moratorium have explored alternatives, no decision
IN THE MIDDLE
- Research indicates that identity gels by the age of 18. Of course, as life events shape us, that sense of self will change over time, but the core tends to remain fairly stable.
- Depression and Suicide: Psychological Difficulties in Adolescence
- Adolescent Depression
- Many adolescents have feelings of sadness and hopelessness, and some experience major depression.
- Adolescent Depression
major depressive disorder relatively rare 3%
influential factors include biology, environment, social factors
- Girls have higher incidences of depression than boys but the cause is not clear.
girls have higher rates reason unclear female gender role?
reactions to stress?
dealing w/ stress girls internalize, guys externalize
hormonal difference not a factor in levels of depression
- Adolescent Suicide
- Adolescent suicide rates have tripled in the last 30 years—it is the third most common cause of death for teenagers.
- The current rate is one teenage suicide every 90 minutes.
more girls attempt; more boys succeed
males tend to choose more violent, immediate methods
estimates of as many as 200 attempts for each completed suicide
- One reason for this increase is the increase in teenage stress— but that is not the whole picture. Other factors include:
other risk factors:
depression, family conflicts, history of abuse/neglect
drug/alcohol abuse
cluster suicide: one suicide leads to attempts by others to kill themselves
- There are some clear warning signs for suicide possibility.
any talk of suicide should be taken seriously; direct or indirect making arrangements as if preparing for a long trip, including giving away prized possessions
writing a will
dramatic changes in beh
preoccupation w/ death in music, art, literature
- Relationships: Family and Friends
- Family Ties: Changes Relations with Relations
- The Quest for Autonomy having independence, sense of control over one’s life
- Family Ties: Changes Relations with Relations
often adds to tension b/w teens, parents
- Culture and Autonomy
- a) The degree of autonomy achieved varies with families and with cultural expectations.
Western societies: individualistic quest for autonomy is early, pronounced
Eastern societies: collectivistic less of a push for autonomy
males usually allowed more autonomy, earlier than females
- The Myth of the Generation Gap divide b/w parents & kids in attitudes, values, aspirations, world views actually tend to agree w/ parents on “big issues”
- Conflicts With Parents annoying, but not major
tend to be over matters of personal taste
- Relationships With Peers: The Importance of Belonging
- Peer relationships are more critical to adolescents than any other time of life.
- References Groups – groups of people we see ourselves as belonging to
most of our social comparisons
set of norms we can use to judge our own successes/ failures
- Cliques and Crowds: Belonging to a Group
- a) Adolescents are usually part of some identifiable group.
- Cliques usually 212 people; most frequent interactions; core group of friends
- Crowds –larger, more impersonal groups
common characteristics, but fewer interactions
strong expectations about beh could be selffulfilling prophecy
cliques, crowds give provisional sense of identity
- Gender Relationships
- a) Gender relations change during the period of adolescence.
(1) Sex cleavageearly adolescence boys hangout w/ boys, girls w/ girls
puberty: hormonal, social pressure to interact w/ the opposite sex
most cliques become mixedsex
end of adol.= cliques less influential; more time…?
- Popularity and Rejection
- Popularity and rejection are central focuses of adolescent lives.
- Differentiations of popularity are complex.
- Popular – wellliked
- Controversial adolescents – liked by some, disliked by others
- Rejected adolescents –uniformly disliked
- Neglected adolescents neither liked nor disliked; overlooked
- Conformity: Peer Pressure in Adolescence
influence of one’s peers to conform to their beh, attitudes
most notable on social matters fashion, music, popular movies, etc. for other concerns, teens turn to whomever they consider an “expert” a lot of the time it is an adult
- Juvenile Delinquency: The Crimes of Adolescence
- Juvenile delinquency (especially violent crime behavior) rates are rising.
teens disproportionately involved in violent crimes
(rape/murder/assault) & property crimes (theft/robbery/arson)
- Undersocialized delinquents
raised w/ little discipline or w/ harsh, uncaring parental supervision
typically begin criminal career before adolescence
will likely keep offending as adults
- Socialized delinquents –
know & subscribe to norms of society; fairly normal psychologically
more of a phase: usually influenced by a group NOT likely to continue offending as adults
- Dating, Sexual Behavior, and Teenage Pregnancy Dating: Close Relationships in the 21st Century
- By the time most girls are 12 and 13, and boys are 13 or 14, they begin to engage in dating.
- The Functions of Dating
learn how to establish intimacy
entertainment
do this on your own;
this helps develop one’s OWN identity
whole thing is more difficult for gay/ lesbian teens, who face discrimination
may not be able to openly date
Research indicates that most dating in early and middle adolescence is superficial, so it does not help in learning to establish intimacy. True intimacy is more common in late adolescence where it can be a potential prelude to marriage.
- When Texting Turns Explicit: Sexting – sending texts that contain explicit, sexually provocative photos or text
- For an increasing number of adolescents, sexting is
easy; can demonstrate affection/loyalty
can also be used as relationship icebreaker
- The consequences of sexting can be devastating.
not uncommon for them to be forwarded
can be seen by 100s of kids can be posted online double standard…?
- There can be legal consequences.
if image involves anyone under 18, child porno laws are applicable becoming more prosecuted
- Sexual Relationships
- Sex and sexual relationships are a major concern for adolescents.
Masturbation sexual selfstimulationoften
1st sexual activity, particularly for males
can be embarrassing
inability to find sexual partner
lingering cultural attitudes
- Sexual Intercourse
- Sexual intercourse remains a major milestone in the perceptions of most adolescents.
what’s the best age?
age of 1st experience declined over last 50 years
over ½ have intercourse b/w 15 & 18
80 %: have sex by the time we are 20
- 1 in 5 have sex before 13
- The double standard (OK for men, not OK for women) has largely been supplanted by a new norm—permissiveness with affection premarital intercourse is acceptable for mean & women if it occurs in context of longterm, committed, or loving relationship
- Sexual Orientation: Heterosexuality, Homosexuality, and Bisexuality 1. Sexual orientation questions also occur at adolescence.
questions about sexual orientation can be difficult to deal with
difficult to determine exact percentages of homosexuality/bisexuality sexuality seen as a continuum 2025%: of teen boys, 10 % of teen girls will have at least 1 samesex encounter
don’t confuse sexuality w/ gender identity 2 separate things
- What Determines Sexual Orientation?
FREUD: inappropriate identification w/ oppositesexed parent not supported by evidence Genetics twin studies
interplay of genetic, physiological, & environmental factors
- Homosexual adolescents have a very difficult time and they are at greater risk for depression and suicide because of homophobia in society.
may be rejected by peers, family
harassment & assaults