{"id":3819,"date":"2018-07-21T20:59:58","date_gmt":"2018-07-22T00:59:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.amyork.ca\/academic\/zz\/?p=3819"},"modified":"2019-05-25T22:08:07","modified_gmt":"2019-05-26T02:08:07","slug":"13-social-and-personality-development-in-middle-childhood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.amyork.ca\/academic\/zz\/child-psychology\/13-social-and-personality-development-in-middle-childhood\/","title":{"rendered":"Social and Personality Development in Middle Childhood"},"content":{"rendered":"
\uf0d8 According to Erik Erikson, middle childhood encompasses the industry\u00adversusinferiority stage, the period from ages 6 to 12 characterized by a focus on efforts to attain competence in meeting the challenges presented by parents, peers, school, and the other complexities of the modern world.<\/p>\n
o There are 2 kinds of social comparisons<\/p>\n
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Self\u00adEsteem: Developing a Positive\u2014or Negative\u2014View of Oneself<\/p>\n
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\uf0d8 Race and Self\u00adEsteem<\/p>\n
o Social identity theory suggests that if minority members feel that the discrimination and prejudice against their group can change, and if they blame society instead of themselves for that discrimination and prejudice, their self\u00adesteem will not be affected by their minority status.<\/p>\n
\uf0d8 Friendships are becoming more important to kids as they move into middle childhood, partly because the nature of friendships starts to change.<\/p>\n
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o Kenneth Dodge suggests that kids go through 6 stages when trying to solve a social problem.<\/p>\n
Kids who are better at these steps tend to be more popular.\u00a0 Unpopular children tend to exhibit a\u00a0 hostile attributional bias. He explained that children with this bias tended to search for evidence of hostility directed at them (often on the defensive and appearing to be initially hostile themselves) and due to self\u00adfulfilling prophecy generally found it\u00ad supporting their initial and often erroneous bias.<\/p>\n
\uf0d8 Avoidance of the opposite sex becomes very pronounced during middle childhood.<\/p>\n
\u2013 like threatening to kiss each other.\u00a0 It helps emphasize the clear boundaries between the sexes.<\/p>\n
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\uf0d8 Cross\u00adRace Friendship appears to change when children reach the age of 11 or 12. Before this time, we play together in a pretty color\u00adblind way, unless our parents are particularly racist.<\/p>\n
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Bullies<\/p>\n
\uf0d8 About 160,000 U.S. schoolchildren stay home from school each day because they are afraid of being bullied. o Eighty percent of boys and 85 percent of girls report being harassed at some point during middle school.<\/p>\n
o About 10\u201315 percent of students bully others at one time or another.<\/p>\n
III. The Family<\/p>\n
\uf0d8 Middle childhood is a period of coregulation, a transition stage during which children and parents jointly control the children\u2019s behavior.<\/p>\n
\uf0d8 During middle\u00adchildhood, children spend significantly less time with their parents, but parents remain major influences in their children\u2019s\u2019 lives.<\/p>\n
o De\u00adidentification: the desire to be different from an older sibling.\u00a0 I know all about this one \u2013 my older brother was not a very dedicated student.\u00a0 Teachers often got very frustrated with him, because they knew he was intelligent, but didn\u2019t perform up to his potential.\u00a0 I am a born applepolisher \u2013 as a child, I really thrived on approval from adults.\u00a0 So when I got to teachers who had previously taught my brother, I went out of my way to show that we were very dissimilar.<\/p>\n
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Mothers are especially likely to feel guilty about working.\u00a0 Keep in mind that your child\u2019s emotional adjustment will depend a great deal on your own emotional adjustment.\u00a0 If working gives you a sense of purpose and pride, and your kid is well\u00adtaken care of when you aren\u2019t there, you have nothing to feel bad about.\u00a0 Studies show that girls whose mothers work outside the home tend to have higher levels of self\u00adesteem than girls whose mothers don\u2019t work outside the home.\u00a0 If you feel good about yourself, your child is more likely to feel good about themselves.<\/p>\n
\uf0d8 Immediately after a divorce, the effects on children in the middle childhood years can be serious depending on the financial condition of the family and the hostility level between spouses before the divorce.\u00a0 You tend to see the worst effects of divorce, like acting out, depression, drops in school performance, in the first 6 months to 2 years after the divorce.\u00a0 On average, it lasts about a year.<\/p>\n
A lot of the negativity can be traced to a significant drop in income.\u00a0 Most kids of divorce end up living with their mother.\u00a0 Women tend to make less money than their husbands.\u00a0 Even with child support (which may or may not be paid), there is usually a significant drop in income.\u00a0 That adds stress to the household.<\/p>\n
Also, kids can feel stuck between their parents.\u00a0 You really shouldn\u2019t run down your ex in front of your kids.\u00a0 Saying bad things about their mother or father is basically saying bad things about the kids.\u00a0 And definitely DO NOT use your kids as a mini\u00adtherapist \u2013 that is just messed up.\u00a0 Go get a real therapist.<\/p>\n
To avoid fights, you need to sit down together as adults and come to some agreements about continuity of rules and expectations between the households.\u00a0 It is not fair to just be the fun parent as the non\u00adcustodial parent.\u00a0 Don\u2019t make the custodial parent be the \u201cbad guy\u201d who enforces rules \u2013 you both need to agree on and enforce rules in both households.<\/p>\n
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\uf0d8 Estimates range from 1 to 5 million families headed by two same\u00adsex partners (or spouses in an increasing number of states), suggesting that some 6 million children have gay\/lesbian parents in the United States. \uf0d8 Children of same\u00adsex parents experience<\/p>\n
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\uf0d8 African American families often have a strong sense of family.<\/p>\n
Supportive extended family o High number of single mothers makes extended family support critical.<\/p>\n
\uf0d8 Hispanic families often stress importance of family life.<\/p>\n
\uf0d8 Asian American families usually have the father as a powerful figure<\/p>\n
\uf0d8 Regardless of race, poorer families have few resources.<\/p>\n
o Higher rates of aggression and conduct problems o Risk of mental health problems<\/p>\n
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